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Yes, it's happened to me too. I felt like I was selling myself - trying to convince the man that I was worth his precious time (2 hours or less) and money (price of coffee and cake). I felt like I was on a terrible job interview and that I wasn't going to make it to the interview.

Now, I don't want to be too negative. Many times people do have actual face-to-face meetings, develop serious relationships and even get married - this happened to my brother's friend and to my friend's daughter. So there is success and love. But you have to persevere and be determined - don't give up, keep trying and surely, you will connect with someone.

Good luck and I hope you meet someone special.

I see women have the same problem I had when I was using online sources. I quit a long time ago. Went on way to many just one night meets somewhere and I had no desire to call them back after that meet. Like you said...pics that are 10 years old that they use, looking for help around their place all the time, kids from different dads (3 kids and all different...red flag there), or the kind that seem right and things go great for 2 weeks and when it gets going pretty good....they back out. Need their space. All kinds of garbage I ran into. I go 5 months sometimes without going out with someone and frankly I could care less anymore. If it happens....it happens.

Yes.....they chatt for awhile...then instead of them telling you theyre not interested.....they block you...I guess it goes back to people not being honest.

...or maybe they'd rather evaporate than hurt your feelings ...some people just take the weasel way out!