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I do wonder if I've been single so long now that I am set in my ways and should be staying single!!!! But yes Gene, I too wonder what if at times my 'soul mate' is in the next isle, or the car next to me in the traffic jam, lol. How very naive and unrealistic huh? It's ok, it doesn't change how happy I am, when I find him we'll just have lots of catching up to do!!!

Well, there are two ways to look at it. You could be depressed that you missed them...or you could realize that if they were Mr. or Ms. Right, it wouldn't have been a "miss" it would have happened. Well, that is, if you believe in that sort of thing. Or the third option, you've used up all your chances at love and it's over for you. Time's up, game over. Now that really is depressing.

That would be my ideal...get out of this city life in a nice cottage somewhere..oh sorry, we were talking about significant others, weren't we? Still no idea...

I've been watching you...you have more clue than you lead on :).

I have a very good idea, the problem is I'm so freakin picky that such a person could not possibly exist! Well, nothing is impossible with God but you know what I mean. The ones I meet that come close to my idea of a "perfect" woman are married already....someone already snatched them up! So, I continue waiting and watching for her to come along.

I don't think it is naive or unrealistic - optimistic is more like it and there's nothing wrong with that.

I still think about this nice lady, Susanne, that came up and introduced herself to me two labor days ago at the Tikki bar on Seneca lake at Watkins Glenn NY. I always will wish that I had a cell phone at that time.