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Big hug Dzign Prof, I know your feelings….and I know, nothing can help… Let me tell you are not alone, if this can bring some fresh air….

Read some of his other posts. Quite interesting and makes sense on some level. But for someone like me, a very sexual and sensual woman, I can't give up that part of me.

I crave that connection only another warm, passionate body gives me........I don't feel that same connection with a golf club or an eclair, or a sunset, etc. etc.

To the original question.....I'm not alone, but very lonely. And only I can change that.....

Maybe we feel more lonely in a sexless marriage because we assume it isn't supposed to be that way, because our spouse should be our end all, be all for us.

I wonder if even those who are getting "it" on a regular basis also feel lonely. Hmmm.....maybe my thinking is skewed because I'm so damn horny. I don't know Chloe, I'm kind of changing my opinion.

I really need a connection though.........soon.

When you are single you at least have the hope of meeting someone. Being married you are burried in obligations and promises so yeah it is lonlier

Feeling alone IN a relationship is FAR worse then

BEING alone. I've been there. I too am in a sexless marriage and sleep alone. There is nothing worse then waking up during the middle of the night to an empty bed and your husband somewhere else in the same house. I don't have advice to offer as I'm taking that same walk in your shoes. Sometimes it just helps to know other people are going through it too. BIG HUGS TO YOU!!!!

Fungi,

I thought I was the only one! It can literally cause physical pain. The rejection is crippling.

I definitely feel lonelier now. It's not so much the bed, but looking at the other couples seemingly having fun and getting along. My relationship is functional. I feel like a robot, a husbot if you will. I'm glad I found this place. It helps to talk.

It's funny to me to see a lady out here complaining she's not getting anything either, then a man not getting it. R U sure Chloe he is not gettin it somewhere else?